This morning as I was making my breakfast I thought about how many times I would take a picture of my plate and publish it in my stories but this morning my thought was “no one cares about what I’m eating for breakfast.” In fact, when it really comes down to it no one really […]
I’ve gotten to the point where I really don’t like anything about it. I have always been an introvert and while social media has been a way for me to interact with others without “really” interacting it’s become far too invasive for me. From the locations to the tags to the curiosity to find out […]
If you are black in this country there is a good chance that you are struggling everyday to just maintain your sanity. Videos of black people being murdered in cold blood by police are constantly streaming online. Murderous cop after murderous cop is set free. Despite this we are forced everyday to keep living in […]
A few years ago I saw this meme “Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.” I chuckled because while we are responsible for our own happiness, if we surround ourselves with people who don’t have our best interest in mind […]
The last few years have taught me a lot on the importance of self care. Especially as a mother. When you become a mom one of the first things you do is lose your self identity. You are no longer you, you are “mommy.” Next thing you lose is your time for yourself. After than […]
The “painful disorder in which tissue that normally lines the inside of your uterus — the endometrium — grows outside your uterus” (MayoClinic.org). Yes, I have that. And it sucks. I have suffered with this disorder for over 20 years. Suffered with it silently, every month, for over 2 decades. I suffered in silence because […]
Hey Everyone, Just wanted to share a few photos from my recent “Momcation”. Enjoy! ~Kai
It seems right now that pettiness is at an all time high. Everyone seems to be out to show how petty they can be. Petty memes are everywhere and admittedly, petty things can be funny. But ultimately being petty is a sign of insecurity. Don’t get me wrong, we all have moments when we want […]
I love love. Falling in love is one of the best feelings in the world. Seeing that special person and getting butterflies in your stomach. The excitement of just “being” with someone. It’s wonderful. I love love so much I also love seeing people happy in love. I love seeing my friends find the person […]