I Went Indoor Skydiving! (Pic of Me Flying Inside!)

I went indoor skydiving this past Saturday and it was AWESOME! It was a birthday gift to my partner. A birthday gift that was pretty much free for me because I had some accumulated airline points that were about to expire. (Yes with some airlines you can turn in your points for things other than […]

#RandomThoughts With Kai – August 17, 2019

Back again with my random thoughts! Fighting on the internet with people actually does help me sell more books. The problem is, I hate fighting with stupid people. It’s a waste of my intellect. It’s weird that controversy actually does sell though… Watch “They Ready” on Netflix. It’s funny. Especially Flame Monroe. Oh and watch […]

My Baby is an Athleta Girl!

The Little Flower’s Athleta campaign is here! I am so proud I had to share!! She is featured on Athleta Girls’ Sweatshirts & Jackets and the All Girl pages! Make sure you check it out!! Here are a few of behind the scenes photos!! Don’t forget to go follow the Little Flower’s blog at OutspokenYuri.com! […]

This Black Woman is Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

Imposter syndrome is “A psychological phenomenon in which people are unable to internalize their accomplishments.” Imposter syndrome affects women more frequently than men and women of color more frequently than white women. I’ve struggled with imposter syndrome most of my adult life. I have been the “only” or one of a “few” black women in […]

#HotGirl for Life!

While I may be off of social media I still keep up with what’s happening in the world so of course I heard about #HotGirlSummer. According to it’s originator Megan Thee Stallion “It’s just basically about women — and men — just being unapologetically them, just having a good-ass time, hyping up your friends, doing […]

#RandomThoughts With Kai – July 16, 2019

Since I don’t post my random thoughts on my social media accounts anymore I realized I no longer had an outlet for my pure randomness. So I decided to blog my random thoughts. Don’t expect a lot of cohesiveness here. This is purely the random stuff that pops into my head! Anyway, on to the […]

#RealBodiesMatter

Filters, photoshop and plastic surgery are so normal these days that women who have real bodies no longer seem normal. Even Chrissy Teigen had to snap back at a guy last week who tried body shame her for not having a large butt. The fake bodies are actually causing women with real bodies to believe […]

The Little Flower and I react to Jennelle Eliana’s Van Tour

This morning the Little Flower and I watched a youtube video of a young lady named Jennelle Eliana who lives in her van (Click here to watch too!). And well this was our reaction… Make sure you all follow Jennelle on her adventures and send her gas money! Here’s her YouTube channel: Jennelle Eliana and […]

Serena “Unretouched” Is Awesome!

Serena Williams is on the cover of Harper’s Bazaar posing in a revealing gold dress and the image has not been retouched! Honestly this cover makes me feel happy. I am so tired of seeing the “fake” photos of women today. The exaggerated breasts, waists, and butts are completely out of hand. Women are starting […]