I went indoor skydiving this past Saturday and it was AWESOME! It was a birthday gift to my partner. A birthday gift that was pretty much free for me because I had some accumulated airline points that were about to expire. (Yes with some airlines you can turn in your points for things other than […]
Back again with my random thoughts! Fighting on the internet with people actually does help me sell more books. The problem is, I hate fighting with stupid people. It’s a waste of my intellect. It’s weird that controversy actually does sell though… Watch “They Ready” on Netflix. It’s funny. Especially Flame Monroe. Oh and watch […]
Imposter syndrome is “A psychological phenomenon in which people are unable to internalize their accomplishments.” Imposter syndrome affects women more frequently than men and women of color more frequently than white women. I’ve struggled with imposter syndrome most of my adult life. I have been the “only” or one of a “few” black women in […]
Since I don’t post my random thoughts on my social media accounts anymore I realized I no longer had an outlet for my pure randomness. So I decided to blog my random thoughts. Don’t expect a lot of cohesiveness here. This is purely the random stuff that pops into my head! Anyway, on to the […]
Filters, photoshop and plastic surgery are so normal these days that women who have real bodies no longer seem normal. Even Chrissy Teigen had to snap back at a guy last week who tried body shame her for not having a large butt. The fake bodies are actually causing women with real bodies to believe […]
Just dropping a quick note to let you all know I am still out here enjoying life. The weather is great so that means I am at the water. (Of course I had to grab a few pics!) I love living so close to the ocean. I’ve been a Californian for 5 years now and […]
Yep, I’m at the beach! Ain’t nothing changed. Hot days means I head to the outside office. And yes, I’m still going to post bikini pics but on my site instead! Lol! Enjoy! 😜 Now let me get back to work… ~Kai
Today is my birthday. I am 40 years old. So many thoughts have passed through my mind the last few weeks thinking about being 40 years old. Not that I consider 40 “old” but the fact that I have lived for 4 decades and how amazing the journey has been. This past decade alone has […]
While I have been living in the Bay Area since June, I really haven’t ventured out to check out the night life. Being the music lover that I am, however, I knew that wouldn’t last too much longer. So, this past weekend I decided to pull myself together and hit the scene. When it comes […]