I Went Indoor Skydiving! (Pic of Me Flying Inside!)

I went indoor skydiving this past Saturday and it was AWESOME! It was a birthday gift to my partner. A birthday gift that was pretty much free for me because I had some accumulated airline points that were about to expire. (Yes with some airlines you can turn in your points for things other than […]

#RandomThoughts With Kai – August 17, 2019

Back again with my random thoughts! Fighting on the internet with people actually does help me sell more books. The problem is, I hate fighting with stupid people. It’s a waste of my intellect. It’s weird that controversy actually does sell though… Watch “They Ready” on Netflix. It’s funny. Especially Flame Monroe. Oh and watch […]

This Black Woman is Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

Imposter syndrome is “A psychological phenomenon in which people are unable to internalize their accomplishments.” Imposter syndrome affects women more frequently than men and women of color more frequently than white women. I’ve struggled with imposter syndrome most of my adult life. I have been the “only” or one of a “few” black women in […]

#RandomThoughts With Kai – July 16, 2019

Since I don’t post my random thoughts on my social media accounts anymore I realized I no longer had an outlet for my pure randomness. So I decided to blog my random thoughts. Don’t expect a lot of cohesiveness here. This is purely the random stuff that pops into my head! Anyway, on to the […]

#RealBodiesMatter

Filters, photoshop and plastic surgery are so normal these days that women who have real bodies no longer seem normal. Even Chrissy Teigen had to snap back at a guy last week who tried body shame her for not having a large butt. The fake bodies are actually causing women with real bodies to believe […]